How the gay movement's successes surpassed feminism and civil rights -- and became a model for a new era
At
the height of the real estate boom in the 2000s, Robert M. “Robby”
Browne, 2007 Corcoran Real Estate National Sales Person of the Year, put
on his woman’s bathing suit and silver heels and walked out onto the
Club Exit stage. A thousand screaming, cheering, photo-snapping real
estate brokers roared their approval. The openly gay Browne, six feet
tall and nearly two hundred pounds, danced a sweetly amateurish version
of the Village People’s gay anthem, “YMCA,” as ten half naked male
Broadway dancers backed him up.
“Is there any question of who the
star is?” Browne asks proudly, watching the video today. For most real
estate brokers, a third year as Corcoran’s top producer would have been
stardom enough, but when Corcoran CEO Pam Liebman began planning the
2007 event, Browne thought he wouldn’t bother to attend. He’d had enough
top-earner, $100-million-club years. He was turning sixty, and he was
thinking about his life as a whole. Finally he said he would show up,
but only if he could accept the award in drag. Browne’s beloved gay
older brother, Roscoe Willett Browne, died of AIDS in 1985. He’d never
forget the day when President George H. W. Bush said that dying of AIDS
wasn’t as important as losing your job. “George H. W. Bush did not
acknowledge the sacrifice of my brother and our love. My brother. He’s
in his eighties and he still has his brothers and I don’t have any
brothers,” says Browne. “And my brother was a Yalie and he was in
Vietnam; Bush, how could he be more your person?” We exist, says Browne,
looking at the video of his awards ceremony. “This show says we exist.”
Exist?
You can’t pick up a paper without seeing evidence that gay people exist
and are compelling American society to acknowledge them. The federal
government protects them from homophobic violence and twenty-one states
have laws against discrimination; 141 cities across the country
constitute enclaves of equal treatment. A federal nondiscrimination bill
gains more support in Congress with each passing year. Poll numbers
show Americans overwhelmingly support protection for gays and lesbians
against hate crimes and equality in health benefits, housing, and jobs.
In July 2010, a federal judge struck down the federal law, the Defense
of Marriage Act, that excluded gays from the federal benefits for which
married people were eligible and that allowed the states to refuse to
recognize the marriages if they pleased. In August, another federal
judge invalidated the amendment to the California constitution, added by
Proposition 8, that limited marriage to a man and a woman. September
had hardly dawned when a third federal judge found the policy requiring
gay soldiers to hide their sexual orientation, don’t ask/don’t tell,
unconstitutional as well. The United States Congress repealed the law
prohibiting out gays and lesbians from serving in the armed forces.
Right after the Fourth of July in 2011, the federal courts in California
ordered the United States military to stop screwing around getting
ready and just cease enforcing it at once.
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